UPDATE:
Well everyone helped out amazingly.
I never got the first batch of all the stuff I ordered, but...
I've had losts of offers of help from Spikey and others to lend me something to hold me over until this problem was resolved, lots of words of encouragement... a smoker friend of mine thought that was so funny. A support group for ex-smokers turned vapors.
Parked at dietsmokes.com was very helpful and he offered to send yet another new atty to my home address. I have given up on using my work address. If this one doesn't arrive I won't even complain to myself at home... parked has gone beyond the call of duty as far as I'm conserned...
Then Terri of Cignot.com was kind enough to throw in a free 510 batt and atomizer with my new order. All in all I had to spend twice the amount for a starter kit, which defeats the purpose of me jumping at the great deal she's offering, but like I said before: It wasn't her fault the post office and mail carrier are screwing me over.
I encourage all to give these people your business.
You won't be left in the lurch.
Then off the e-cigarette topic, still on the "I hate the Post office" topic: a book I had shipped to me and just found out yesterday should have arrived 2 weeks ago was also lost. I'm an artist and I submitted a piece I did for this awesome Austrian design journal called +rosebud (rosebudmagazine.com - shameless plug) and my work was accepted, so they sent me a contributors copy to my work. Naturally to my work. So after I found out it had been sent two weeks ago I wrote to them and not only are they sending me another copy to my house, they are also sending me another copy to my work, for reasons I have no understanding of. I told them to delete my work address, but they sent one anyways.
So my faith in humanity has been restored.
Just not my faith in the postal system, but who had any faith in them from the start, right? Although I love the band "the Postal Service" but that's as far as my love goes.
Thanks to everyone who cared.
-marc