burning my girlfriend

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db13berry

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Daaaaang! You sound Hot!!!!!







And foot pads things on your hands? BAHAHAHAHAHHA!



I'm really not laughing at you, but I must say, your situation did give me a giggle or two or three.

Seriously, though. I wouldn't think that nicotine would burn her to the point of being uncomfortable. Well, unless you have it on your hands and touch her.............down there. Or if you aren't washing your hands before touching yourself and nic is being transferred.............down there. And you said it's not just.............down there.

I say go with trying the placebo effect. Tell her you are using no nic juice and see how it goes.
If there is still a problem, I'm going to say that maybe her interest has "burned" out?
 

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Some kind of cologne or deodorant issue. I have a few allergies, some of which have been tripped up by some womens' perfumes as well. And the effect has been somewhat of a burning and/or warm feeling. Or, just uncontrollable coughing & such, around them. My allergies aren't that bad, but a cat or some perfumes can hit me like a box of wrenches. Incidentally, I have almost no allergies when I smoke, as it dulls my senses. I'm still waiting to see if they come back strong, now that I've ditched smoking for vaping.

So, ditch that cheap bottle of Axe you're spraying on... LOL
 

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I recommend trying dimethicone on your hands, and where ever. Many protective lotions have dimethicone, but the best is to buy "chafing powder gel" - Monistat has a line of this for women and sports enthusiasts, but most major drug stores have their own brand which is half the cost. This will put a protective layer between your skin and hers, without interfering with anything - it's odorless and doesn't feel greasy.
 

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I hate to be the one to say it, but maybe she's not that into you anymore. I've heard of girls using all kinds of crazy excuses to get out if intimate relationships. I hope it's not the case, but it is something to consider.

Thanks for saying what so many of us were thinking but didn't want to say. It's not unheard of, I've heard storys of girls coming up with some crazy excuses to get out of a relationship instead of just coming out with the truth. If this isn't the case sorry, and if it is your better off b/c without truth and trust relationships don't last. Good luck whatever the case may be.
 

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thats kinda what i thought but its ANY section of my skin(ie. penis) i think i may go back to carto's and see if that helps( less filling maybe less trans-dermal absorption?) i wish there was a way i could test the levels of nicotine on my skin...(which since 10% of your body's waste is excreted through your pores...lolz...maybe i don't want to know)

Besides what others have said about it being an excuse, it could be some type of allergic reaction (such as soaps and other things people have mentioned). It could also be your sweat, everyone's chemistry is a little different and she could be having a reaction to that, I had a GF once (ex-fiance actually) that had some internal problems due to contact by uncovered skin. And why are you not using protection (every time). Until you're talking about a wife and want (or don't care if it happens) a child there should be protection every time... wow do I feel old saying that...
 

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I hate to be the one to say it, but maybe she's not that into you anymore. I've heard of girls using all kinds of crazy excuses to get out if intimate relationships. I hope it's not the case, but it is something to consider.


Agreed, Agreed, Agreed. If you ever watched the yr 2000 come in from all over the world on tv, you would have seen millions of women. Just sayin
 

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sooooo i have been dating this girl about 1 8months and recently she has started to tell me that my skin burns hers when i touch her. this effect is amplified to an almost unbearable level in specifically more "sensitive" areas of her body. do you think the nicotine is what is causing this? i vape about 3-7ml's of 36mg a day (madvapes juice olny...MVFTW) plus 2-3 pieces 4mg nic gum when i cant vape. she does not currently use nicotine but used to be an analog-er about 24~ months ago...this issues is starting to hurt our relationship and im willing to reduce/quit nicotine because of it(though i REALLY don't want to quit)

She could be having 'hot flashes'... (even if she's under 40)
 
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