I think the consensus is that the nautilus mini and istick mini make one heck of a dummy proof starter kit. I would be concerned about flavor too, make sure to give her a few bottles to sample.
I think a trip to the B&M is essential. I would also make sure to let her parents know to send you the starter kit in the mail if it just ends up in a drawer. I have given out over 60 complete vape set ups over the last 2 years. I would say 20 of them were given out multiple times. I dont care if you decide to quit vaping, but I would care if a perfectly good set up went to waste.
Those sound good and fits my budget, then I could throw a couple of CE4s in the box for her mom. Would it be too cutesy to buy a shuffle or an ipod mini to sort of match and put an apple sticker on the istick?