Total spicy food addict here. One of my absolute favorite treats is REAL giardiniera from Chicago, the stuff that they slather on pizza, Italian beef sandwiches, etc. It's small hot peppers (they call 'em "sport" peppers although I'm not sure what variety they are in reality), mixed with cracked olives, celery, onion, packed in vegetable oil. When you grow up on the stuff and can't GET IT... it makes one sad. (Boston has no idea wtf real giardiniera is).
Anyway, there's a few pretty good wing places in the Boston area. There's this place called Wing It that has a "suicide" Buffalo flavor that's actually just about right for my level of heat - but I don't get them all that often because I'm trying to cut back on fried goodies