No Harley (only because they wouldn't like the roads where I live), I don't officially work in IT (but as our IT guru's are based in another country its safe to say we have to do some of it) but I do have tattoos.
As for being tough, well someone always said the most dangerous place is between a mother and her child and I agree, upset my baba and there is nowhere for you to hide, saying that, I'm a little worried that most of my hubby's work mates are scared of me, overheard a couple of them talking the other day 'That's Kebab's missus, word of advice, don't cross her" and I always thought I was a .....cat, pfft.