Don is quite right here. HV vaping still has bugs to be worked out. In general HV vaping shortens the life of attys. Allow me to add some useful math that can act as a gauge.
Not all 510 attys have the same resistance. The ones I have from TW are consistently 2.5 ohm. Others state that their 510 attys are 2.2 ohms. LR attys are 1.8-2.0 ohms I think. DSE510 attys are generally around 3.0 ohms. HV attys are generally higher than 3.0 ohms.
As Don said, its wattage (power, P) that is the key, not voltage.
P = V^2/R, where V is volts, and R is ohms. "Sweet spot" is particular for the person, but there seems to be a general attraction to 10-12 watts...although my sweet spot is around 6 watts, and that can be too much for me sometimes (I'm a light-weight). A 2.2 ohm atty at 7.4V, will be giving about 24 watts on the coil. That's a huge amount of wattage on the atty!! So it would be useful to measure the atty resistance with a multimeter, if you have one, and see if this might be why your problems are occurring. My guess is this is the reason. Unless you can lower the batt voltage, you are likely going to need HV (high resistance) attys, and there still might be considerable strain on them. A multimeter, especially when you start getting into mods, is quite useful.
Good luck!