I thank you for starting this thread SC. I have wrestled with this issue for years. I was raised in a Pentacostal church through a friend's family. We were best friends and where she went, I went. As a family, they attended church Sunday morning, Sunday evening and Wednesday evenings plus revivals, song fests etc. They were very devout Christians. My parents did not attend church.
Smoking was considered a sin, as was wearing jewelry, make up, "men's apparel" (pants) and many other things. I was taught that if you sinned, you backslid and God was very displeased with you. I backslid pretty frequestly. My view that smoking was a sin was formed very early. I was too young to smoke at that time but my parents both smoked like chimneys.
I have attended a different church for many years now and I know that God loves me and forigives me when I sin. I now pray for His strength to help me in the areas that I am weak in. He knows all my areas of imperfection and wants to enable me to become the image of His Son. He doesn't abandon us when we need Him most and that has brought me great comfort....it has also brought me much pain in the fact that I am still struggling with this issue after so many years. I have spoken to my pastor about it and he said he didn't feel it would keep you out of heaven but it was not good for you. It would affect your health and shorten your life.
I gave up stinky sticks in June 2009 but I still consider myself a smoker. This is not to condemn anyone else that feels differently....this is just how I consider myself. And like an alcoholic, I'll always be a smoker even if I quit today. It is something that I will always remember as enjoyable and think of with fondness. God has freed me from a lot of things, drinking, cussing and other things that I would be ashamed for anyone else to know. I don't remember them with longing....it makes me sad to think I lived like that..it makes me sad to think of the years I wasted not serving God and knowing how much He loved me. But smoking is a whole nother thing.
I consider ecigs equal to cigarettes, in that I don't feel I have really quit smoking. It is an obsession with something that does not increase my joy in the Lord. I don't think I would want to be smoking an ecig if Jesus was sitting here in my living room looking at me. I would want to be at His feet, worshipping. In essense, Jesus is sitting here in my living room looking at me. God sees everything I think or do. So why am I still tied to a habit that is, at best, stupid and wasteful, taking away time and money I could be using towards serving God? As you can see, I lack self-control in some areas of my life. Self control is just one of the fruits of the spirit that I am still seeking. There are others....patience, controlling my tongue....you get the idea.
Does God still love me? I believe Yes. Does He want me to life a healthy life? Again, the answer would be Yes. Am I living healthy in other areas of my life? No. I eat too much, spend too much time sitting instead of moving my body. But I am a much better person since coming to know Him personally. Outwardly, not much change, only older. Heart wise, much better. Thank God, He sees our heart. He has changed mine, put love and compassion where anger and bitterness used to live, put joy and peace where fear and anxiety used to live.
I think that changing is sometimes very hard but I believe that God doesn't give up on us.....He is patiently and continually working in our hearts to change us. That is what I hold onto every day. What I am today is not what I will be tomorrow. He is my Encourager, my Comforter and my Great Treasure. Simply put, I love Him and I trust Him to mold me into whatever His plan for me is.
I apologize for writing a book, it didn't start off that way. I just wanted to let you know that we all struggle with different areas of our lifes. We are not perfect and won't be until we're with Jesus but He is faithful in His promises and won't give up on us.