Silver,
I love the Spoon Theory. Makes me cry though T-T. I also have Fibro, Vit D deficiency like many chronic pain patients, Spinal Stenosis with nerve root involvement
throughout my lumbar spine and five herniated discs.
I so feel for all of you with the processing disorders etc. Unfortunately the meds I'm on make it very difficult for me to get my thoughts together sometimes and I often lose people in the middle of a sentence. I just forget what they were saying. I'm sorry you have to live with it your entire lives.
It would be nice to have others who "get it" to chat with. Sounds like there are enough of us for someone to be here at most times even if the rest just need to hang back some of the time.
hsmama