Yeah, all those brush on kits will only put on a thin layer at a time.... ?? Just do more layers?? The liquid is expensive but you can
shop around. Some kits are the immersion type and would build up better. Lacquer coating where applicable may help the wear issue.
I've been looking at em for silver/gold plating of a copper
mod. But don't really have the budget to experiment with em. FYI - there are youtube vids about at-home zinc plating using pennies and vinegar- lol. I played with it but was not impressed. I did get a thin coat on copper end caps using connections on my 5 V direct PT! It was fun to play with. lol.
You can "burn" it if you get the anode and cathode too close... it builds up black oxidized "gunk".
I'd go with the pre-made liquid and shop around. It all depends on how much money you want to spend and whether or not it is worth it to you.
Liquid prices vary, I think gold prices effect it and gold is at a real high right now. Silver is usually much more cost effective. Some of the chemicals in those liquids are nasty too....
All just my 2 cents. Let us know how it comes out!
P.S. Your local jeweler will often plate stuff for you .............