I'm pretty new to this as well. But after watching countless posts, and many videos, what has worked most consistently for me is the "drill bit method". I roll my ss wick so that it is exactly the same diameter as a 3/32" drill bit, which fits nicely in the hole. I wrap the coil around the shank of the drill bit, before inserting it in the hole. Then I insert the bit, with the coil on it, into the hole, and connect the + and -. Carefully twist the drill bit out, leaving just the coil. I test fire the coil at vary low voltage, to make sure it works, and glows evenly. Then, very carefully twist the oxidized wick down into the center of the coil, and down into the tank. Dry burn it a couple times; then put a couple drops of juice on it, and burn it off. Fill it up and vape.
I haven't had a coil fail this way. I think that the less I handle the wick, the better. The oxidation layer on it is microscopic. It doesn't take much to disturb it. YMMV, and JMO.