510 is not the best for everyone. I currently use a box mod which would not be for you at least starting out since you think you want something that looks like a real cigarette. Most people, including myself, feel this way at first but quickly realize looking like a real cig is not that important. Battery life, flavor, throat hit, and vapor production quickly become more important than looking like a real cig. I would probably recommend a KR808 to a beginner because it looks like a real cig just longer. It will give you longer battery life than a 510 and uses cartomizer so you don't have to fool with dripping or filling carts. Cartomizers are much easier to refill and last longer between filling than carts. I use 510 cartomizers and get about an hour of heavy vaping out of a full cartomizer. I would think an kr808 cartomizer would be similar I just haven't tried one yet. Whatever e- cig you buy you should find an American juice vendor that sells custom made juice and order 30ml in different flavors. The juice that comes in most starter kits is usually terrible. Getting bad juice could make you give up on e- cigs immediately. My first e- juice order was Dekang and it almost made me gag. I quickly went back to smoking real cigs until I ordered some juice from vaporbomb.com and this helped me give up real cigs completely. Check out the juice reviews section to find a vendor and flavors you think you will like and order different flavors from that vendor. I would probably start by ordering 6 5ml bottles of juice which would last you a couple of weeks.