So here's the deal,
My gf of 18 months has now stated that she is getting an ecig whether I help her or not. I've been vaping for 4 years and have thrown at least 3k into this ''hobby''.
She has been smoke free for 3 years buy her own will, she smoked for about 6 years beforehand. she refuses to listen to me any more about how she may quit ecigs and go back to smoking. she has no temptation to smoke but wants to vape very bad now saying it's because of stress. I have refused to help her for the past few months in finding a device, now she says shes going to a local B&M to get advice there.
I don't know why someone would even want the temptation of smoking when they've been clean that long without vaping. what happens when she runs out of juice? Or discovers that her device now sucks? Or starts getting dry hits and can't find the time to fiddle with it? Or she can't find a ADV and starts smoking a few stinkies a day? The sensation of vaping is akin to smoking and it is very easy to fall of the wagon when your a newbie and inexperienced.
I feel responsible for all this as I'm casually puffing away all day long. We have 2 little girls living with us and what do you think they will see with both of us puffing away on the couch? Ive smoked throughout my daughters life (she is 6) and now shes sees me vape and I still explain to her that it's not a good thing to do. My gf has a 2 year old and she doesnt know the difference, but both of the girls look up to her so much because she is a woman. I feel that if she starts vaping too the kids will be smoking at 13 and will have learned by example.
she doesnt understand that vaping is just as addicting as smoking but (hopefully) healthier. I feel that I either need to quit vaping and sell my stash or break things off, I don't think she will listen to me anymore and will just try to hide it from me. stressed.
/end rant
My gf of 18 months has now stated that she is getting an ecig whether I help her or not. I've been vaping for 4 years and have thrown at least 3k into this ''hobby''.
She has been smoke free for 3 years buy her own will, she smoked for about 6 years beforehand. she refuses to listen to me any more about how she may quit ecigs and go back to smoking. she has no temptation to smoke but wants to vape very bad now saying it's because of stress. I have refused to help her for the past few months in finding a device, now she says shes going to a local B&M to get advice there.
I don't know why someone would even want the temptation of smoking when they've been clean that long without vaping. what happens when she runs out of juice? Or discovers that her device now sucks? Or starts getting dry hits and can't find the time to fiddle with it? Or she can't find a ADV and starts smoking a few stinkies a day? The sensation of vaping is akin to smoking and it is very easy to fall of the wagon when your a newbie and inexperienced.
I feel responsible for all this as I'm casually puffing away all day long. We have 2 little girls living with us and what do you think they will see with both of us puffing away on the couch? Ive smoked throughout my daughters life (she is 6) and now shes sees me vape and I still explain to her that it's not a good thing to do. My gf has a 2 year old and she doesnt know the difference, but both of the girls look up to her so much because she is a woman. I feel that if she starts vaping too the kids will be smoking at 13 and will have learned by example.
she doesnt understand that vaping is just as addicting as smoking but (hopefully) healthier. I feel that I either need to quit vaping and sell my stash or break things off, I don't think she will listen to me anymore and will just try to hide it from me. stressed.
/end rant
