To be able to run higher watts you have to run lower OHMs! I'm running at 60w with a .15 OHM build that runs at 3.1 volts. It sounds like you're running gear that isn't sub-ohm & probably won't do anything over probably 14w by design! If you really want to go higher watts do the research & find a VV/VW mod & a sub-ohm tank! Look at the sub-box mini by Kangertech, it might be a good place to start! I have found that I end up adj. my watts until my build reaches 3.0v to 4.5v! that seems to be the sweet spot for me!
I'm right now running .7 ohm at 9W (2.6 V), but have used 2.4 ohm at 22 watts (7V). These were different kinds of coils. The main reason for my .7 ohm is to make a small coil with wire that's thick enough to not erode rapidly and gets along somewhat with my RDA posts. And the 2.4 ohm was about 5 times the size of a 2.4 Protank coil.
Vapers that may or may not understand Ohm's law still manage to get the cart before the horse. Voltage and resistance determine how much power will flow, not what happens when that power flows, that's up to many different aspects of the coil and atomizer.
If you're using manufactured coils (non-TC), they'd better work pretty good right around 4 volts, because someone might use them on a mech. Or if you're making coils for mech. But if you're using a regulated mod you can try a lot of combinations.
One of the most common situations actually results in higher ohms = more power: using longer wire of the same type, e.g. more wraps. Higher resistance, more wire, larger coil. Only if you use thicker wire, or more pieces in parallel, do you get lower ohms and higher power handling.