I don't remember anything being a problem when I first started here. I read the stickies, made my posts and moved foward. I am here to tell you that in this forum, I have met some of the nicest most supportive, generous, people I've ever met in my life time. I'm serious, you have a genuine need and these folks are here for you and really go the extra mile to help out. Yes there are other forums as you said but I can guarantee the quality and caliber of the people will not come close to these folks here on ecf. It's really simple. Follow the rules and move forward. I think it takes all of ten minutes to get the required posts. Really NOT a big deal!! I can tell you it's very much worth your time to do it. This is one of the greatest forums I've ever been on! The people here are jewels.I do hope you stay so you can see what I'm talking about.you might be able to find the same information elsewhere as you put it but you sure won't find the same people. And People Are WHAT Makes OR Breaks A forum. I really cherish these people here as they have helped me so much. Other forums are not the same. The choice is yours. But I don't see a problem with following a couple of rules. I do hope you stay and if you do I'd like to welcome you.