My sister in law was recently engaged (her great fiance took her on a cruise for her birthday and proposed there, aww!) and over the weekend she asked if I would be a bridesmaid. She also asked if my two daughters would be flower girls.
My sister in law is 21.. I am 30-something.. so I will be significantly older than all the other bridesmaids, not to mention I hate dresses. I honestly think her wedding would be so much nicer with me sitting in the audience and not participating. Oh and, her wedding colors are red and orange! the body type for the red and orange dresses she is considering are really great! If you're a cute, petite 21 year old who can pull off red and orange. I feel terrible trying to decline, and she won't really take no for an answer Aside from the aesthetic issues.. the two dresses for the girls will be a small fortune.. I can't see spending well over $500 on just dresses, not to mention shoes, hair, nails (the list goes on!).
How can I get out of this? I told her I would be willing to help her in any way with whatever she needed, but she doesn't have anyone else she wants in the wedding party.
Did I mention the red and orange colors? Any advice?
My sister in law is 21.. I am 30-something.. so I will be significantly older than all the other bridesmaids, not to mention I hate dresses. I honestly think her wedding would be so much nicer with me sitting in the audience and not participating. Oh and, her wedding colors are red and orange! the body type for the red and orange dresses she is considering are really great! If you're a cute, petite 21 year old who can pull off red and orange. I feel terrible trying to decline, and she won't really take no for an answer Aside from the aesthetic issues.. the two dresses for the girls will be a small fortune.. I can't see spending well over $500 on just dresses, not to mention shoes, hair, nails (the list goes on!).
How can I get out of this? I told her I would be willing to help her in any way with whatever she needed, but she doesn't have anyone else she wants in the wedding party.
Did I mention the red and orange colors? Any advice?