I felt good about setting him up with the basics just so he could try and see if he liked it on the cheap. I also got the impression he was looking forward to trying it out. If they don't have the desire there's not much you can do. Hopefully your better half will figure it all out.Nice story Sir. Things are not going as well with my wife. I've seen her use the kit I got her maybe a couple times. When she goes out into the garage to smoke, she just grabs a cigarette. She did use the ecig more when we went to visit my daughter at college so she didn't smell like smoke but at home it's not really working out. I had won one kit from innokin and bought a second one and a pack of coils. It's really a nice little unit but she's just not using it.