Yup..... Ur screwed. Sorry. If you have a circuit that breaks the connection between the outside of your main body and the outside of the cartomizer, you will get shocked. If you reverse the connections to the carto connector you'll get shocked when it is
ON. Right now you get shocked when it is
OFF. Reversing the battery won't fix this either.
The "correct" way to do this is to have your switch break the connection between "+" pole of the battery and the center pole of the carto adapter.. and have the "-" side of the battery hard wired to the outside of the PV body and the outside pole of the carto adapter.
I realize this will be a hard change to make based on your mechanical configuration.
The way you have it is not a problem if you were using an atomizer since the mouthpiece is an insulator. But.. a cartomizer has a conductive mouthpiece.
The easiest solution is for you to take a cartomizer condom, put a hole in the middle of it and slip it over the end of the carto.. making an insulated mouthpiece. Or pop the white cap off and use a cut-down 901 whistle tip on the carto.
Sorry.