Lost my best friend yesterday

[MiloB]

Hi Everyone,

Haven't been on for a few days. I'm sad to report that yesterday morning I lost my loyal confidant, my eager travel companion, my dedicated writing assistant, the one who introduced me to my wife, who gave me a reason to get up early in the morning for a brisk walk even when I didn't want to, my accommodating chest warmer, who always seemed to know what I was thinking and felt a sloppy wet kiss was as good an answer as any in a pinch, my best friend, soul child, and my online avatar namesake… Milo was three months shy of 15. I miss him dearly. And on the way home from our goodbye, it started to rain in L.A.....

I'm not doing well with it today. He's the closest thing to a child I've ever had and it wasn't easy to let go even though I know he chose his time. But not having to walk and feed him this morning caught me unprepared. Don't know what to do with myself. Just thought I'd post it here, since I'm trying to celebrate his life and our journey together instead of focusing on loss and pain. It's hard.

Milo

 

[Wafflestomper]

Hi Everyone,

Haven't been on for a few days. I'm sad to report that yesterday morning I lost my loyal confidant, my eager travel companion, my dedicated writing assistant, the one who introduced me to my wife, who gave me a reason to get up early in the morning for a brisk walk even when I didn't want to, my accommodating chest warmer, who always seemed to know what I was thinking and felt a sloppy wet kiss was as good an answer as any in a pinch, my best friend, soul child, and my online avatar namesake… Milo was three months shy of 15. I miss him dearly. And on the way home from our goodbye, it started to rain in L.A.....

I'm not doing well with it today. He's the closest thing to a child I've ever had and it wasn't easy to let go even though I know he chose his time. But not having to walk and feed him this morning caught me unprepared. Don't know what to do with myself. Just thought I'd post it here, since I'm trying to celebrate his life and our journey together instead of focusing on loss and pain. It's hard.

Milo

Sorry to hear that.

That really sucks

 

[notsoogood]

I'm so sorry MiloB!!! I know exactly how you feel. It is one of the hardest things to go through.

 

[wgm]

I'm so sorry about your loss. Here's something that helped me when I lost my old buddy Jet.

Rainbow Bridge​

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal passes on that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.

There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...

Author Unknown

 

[mianker]

Milo,
I am so sorry, the loss is real and our pets are REAL members of our families and the fact that we share our daily lifes with them makes the loss that much greater. Waves of sympathy and hugs are being sent with this message.

 

[shutterbug]

Ohhhh, I am so sorry for your loss. Pets hold such a wonderful place in our hearts and families. They do become our children. I'm sending my best wishes to help you get through such a difficult time.

What a beautiful poem.

 

[keyzygirl]

Im very sorry that you lost your bestfriend.Im glad he chose you to spend his life with.Be thankful and remember and maybe one day another friend will choose you to share his life.Im sorry for your pain,and I hope your okay.

 

[SuZamme]

So sorry to hear about your Milo.

My buddy/cat Yerby passed on April 25th after 15 years of constant companionship.

It is difficult in all those moments of noticing they are no longer with us...the greetings when we get home, the snuggling during television times, the letting inside and outside, the playing games, and then the missing little warm body on the bed/pillow/arm/head each and every night. Sigh.

Blessings to you.

 

[doots]

Sorry for you Milo.. Take care, there are brighter days ahead for you..
My heartfelt prayers for you and your family..

 

[BradSmith]

Oh man that sux, my grandfather had a pug and she was the one great dog. Her name was Suka (.....) and we all loved that dog.

I know it hurts but hang in there. Good luck!!

 

[Houdini]

My condolences. I know what you're going through at this time. I went through it and it's not easy at first but time does heal. I keep pictures of my best friend around and have never forgotten him. He left me 15 years ago and I still think about him at least once a day.

 

[Zenfrogs]

I am so sorry you lost your best friend! He sure was handsome. Hang in there!

 

[Katya]

Milo, so sorry to hear that. I know the pain you're feeling now. There is only one thing that's always worked for me, and that's a trip to a local animal shelter. You can never replace your best friend, but you can make a homeless, abandoned creature very happy and celebrate the life of your friend by saving another life.

When you're ready.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Hellen A. Handbasket]

I'm so sorry to hear about Milo. It is the worst pain to lose our companions. I hope you find some comfort here with all of us.

I have to agree with Katya. It doesn't seem possible to fill he hole in your heart when a fuzzy child is gone. Nothing makes it better, but all it takes is one grateful kiss from an orphan at a shelter to fall in love all over again and regain that peace we only seem to find in the company of a 4 legged friend who loves us unconditionally.

Hellen - *owned by 2 no-kill shelter dogs fondly known as the Beastie Boys*

 

[jcamacho]

Sorry to hear of your loss, I feel the same way about my friend Sarge(avatar). I know I'll feel the same way you do now when he's gone.

 

[beebopnjazz]

Oh Milo- I'm so sorry! I've been through this a few times - I can't even read the Rainbow Bridge.

It does get easier over time- you will never forget him. And one day - you will find another dog - never to replace your best bud but as a celebration to the special relationship you had with Milo.

When you feel sad just remember you'd never have chosen not to know Milo to avoid the pain of his passing. He brought you so much more in love and happiness than can be taken away from you now.

 

[warlike36]

Ya know,I know exactly how you feel. My first was 12 when I lost him. Hurt more than my first divorce and believe it or not she was human. I pushed on and then came "Sage" He filled that void,then some. Iam truly sorry for your loss,and I wish you well friend.

 

[just-cass]

so sorry for your loss...i still celebrate my polos bday(shih tzu)) every year and patricks day will never be the same(the day he passed away)....hes gone 6 years and as my first pet who slept on the end of my bed since i was 9 he'll always be to me a best friend who i lost...

understand what you're feeling and hoping you find a way as i did to remember the happy memories....i wrote them all down after he passed so i will never forget...maybe this will help you too? and on a hard day you can recall the great life u gave him and the fun you brought to his life....

sorry for your loss

 

[Rhetoric Camel]

so sorry to hear about that!!! I fear the day it happens to me, I'm going to be a HUGE wreck!!!

 

[geeker]

Thinking of you...
Sorry for your loss.