I would just like to say as an aside... Whenever the ladies travel me, I don't feel wrong or bad, at all.. I've helped people and given of myself all of my life. If I finally decide to be sure I get something back out of it, too, good for me!! I still turn down most of what has been offered and I make sure that I do not take advantage. And that's more than most people would do. And I just bet that time spent with a regular man isn't a life changing experience. And I just don't see a woman spending time with a normal man and ending up looking contented like one of those cheshire cat things. And I don't see a woman walking around smiling all of the time because of a normal man. I'm proud of being able to make women I know so happy.
Loveline: Am I too open and honest.. with women? WWYD?
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There are so many details needed in order to give any real advise on your situation. Its not clear what your situation even is. Do you have psychological problems or do you still drink. What does your life consist of, living arrangments, job, friends, family, ect.? To many variables. Do you need help for real or are we just bs'ing?
Yeah.. I know all about those :ce.nsored: who use it to get inside of women.. They get so tired of those slimes.. Poor things. I sure do know how they feel with people trying to use them all of the time
You're not going to believe this, but I don't even go into a woman I've not known for AT LEAST a year and usually it's longer than that.
I don't have any game. None.
Thank you. But, well... sometimes immigrants don't have those opportunities. I was living as an immigrant at the time.
Hey, you ignored the romance/dating part.
I don't know everything. I know that. I think I do ok. I have problems - I don't think general maturity happens to be one of them. There is more to what makes a balanced person than maturity alone. You touched on some of the problems I do have. And I acknowledged one of them earlier.
You wouldn't tell me there was something wrong like you did if you didn't want to hear what I have to say. And I happen to know this particular rigmarole very well.
Maturity, despite its definition, has no age. And ones maturity level is not static. You can move backwards or forwards. I was more mature at 17 than I was at 19, and I'm much more mature now than I was at either of those ages.
I'm telling you I've already been here, because I have. It's got naught to do with age. It's just my life.
So I think you're a bit off-base.
I can't tell you why you do it. No one can. So think on it. Enlist help as needed.
Hey, you ignored the romance/dating part.
I don't know everything. I know that. I think I do ok. I have problems - I don't think general maturity happens to be one of them. There is more to what makes a balanced person than maturity alone. You touched on some of the problems I do have. And I acknowledged one of them earlier.
You wouldn't tell me there was something wrong like you did if you didn't want to hear what I have to say. And I happen to know this particular rigmarole very well.
Maturity, despite its definition, has no age. And ones maturity level is not static. You can move backwards or forwards. I was more mature at 17 than I was at 19, and I'm much more mature now than I was at either of those ages.
I'm telling you I've already been here, because I have. It's got naught to do with age. It's just my life.
So I think you're a bit off-base.
I can't tell you why you do it. No one can. So think on it. Enlist help as needed.
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No I don't need help
I need my own help I've deprived myself of
Maybe I just needed a sounding board
I do nothing but listen to and solve everyones problems so much .. maybe I needed to say some things off, you know?
Oh I didn't ignore that part.. it just was glanced over when it ended with "getting laid".
It's very interesting .. the 17 to 19 thing .. I've often said lately that I feel like I've been regressing, I call it, and I don't know what is really happening to me. I feel like I must have been some kind of stroke victim or some kind of thing.
Yeah you two are talking way over my head, aren't you? LoL.
UM OMG I sure did.
You going to call me dude, like you did in that one thread when you lamblasted me for AGREEING with things you were saying? Have at it.
Oh I didn't ignore that part.. it just was glanced over when it ended with "getting laid".
It's very interesting .. the 17 to 19 thing .. I've often said lately that I feel like I've been regressing, I call it, and I don't know what is really happening to me. I feel like I must have been some kind of stroke victim or some kind of thing.
I call that "the impact." You appear to have survived the impact itself. The aftershocks are the tough part. That's where I was at, at 19.
You gotta be real determined to come out ahead.
No, hell no... I am a lover.
But I do have a few ladies who are considered to be friends.
I've known them for years and they are friends but can't technically be so .. because I've had a rule against making new friends for fifteen years, now.
I did recently break that rule about a month ago. I have a friend, a new one. We get along great! He's a big scary italian looking guy who makes a fortune in sales.... He's taught me quite a bit in the time I've known him. And his family screwed him over in shockingly similar ways. And he ended up taking care of his mother after she gave ALL of her businesses and money to the brother. Which is also shockingly similar to my situation.
This guy is one bad
a couple months ago he had three strokes and lost 50lbs all at once and two weeks later he was back at work.. He's teaching me some great things. And the ironic part of it is, he hates women and I'm constantly arguing with him saying .... No women aren't stupid, they're not all bad, etc. So I can't believe I'm on here with people trying to say I sound like him. It's just insane.
That man has been through so much with women. His woman turned gold digger, divorced him, came back years later and managed to screw him out of more money, his daughter disowned him for not giving her early inheritance (after he bought her a 20k honeymoon and a car), he even had a nurse one time literally rip staples out of him after his stomach was cut out... blood was spurting out of one of them when the doctor came back in and started screaming
But I'm trying to talk him into trying my lifestyle and enjoying some women
He's a good hearted scary man and any woman would be lucky to have him and I hate to see him so scared and hateful toward women
I just can't believe people on here think I hate women or think they're below men
Cozzicon is either a hell of a wise person, or a complete moronic idiot, depending on how you look at him. I personally see him as being both. Which is pretty much how I see myself, right now. You think you're talking about me right in front of me, when you have no reason to believe it just illustrates my point.
I understand the laws of attraction and I don't abuse them.
Women don't want things sugar coated, real ones don't. They want a real raw wolf of a man who has a sensitive and loving side. Women want you to play with them a little bit, but not to the point of being uncaring or dishonest.
Why do people insist on assigning me personality traits based on my genitals?
That attitude doesn't last a day with me.
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