Yeah it is. And I am so far away from them but I don't have the resources to get a POA and place her in a hospital so it is going to have to be up to my father if she won't go willingly when he pays her bail. If he can. I almost hope he won't be able to. At least that way I know she will be safe.
Been there, my friend. The worst part is that awful feeling in your gut when you know there's nothing (else) you can do. That gets less acute with time but it never really goes away. I hope your mom stays safe and is able to get the help she needs quickly, both for her sake and for everyone else's. Hang in there. Take care of yourself, too.