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Patkid

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Chaotic- 4 years ago I spent 9 months caring for my wife of 33 years on hospice 24 hours a day. That was the most hurtful thing a man can do but it was also a very cherished period that I have no regrets of doing. As bad as it hurts now it will get better. It will never not hurt, but the hurt eases some with time.

I did the same for my husband. The memories I have of the time I spent caring for him are often the only thing that keeps me getting up in the morning. So many don't get the chance for that time. I miss him like fire but feel gratitude for the kindness and tenderness in our last months together.
 

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I'm back in Michigan after spending two weeks in Georgia with my Daddy. He died on September 17th of Cancer. I'm so grateful that I got to spend that time with him. I cared for him and we talked and laughed and really had a wonderful time. His passing was very easy and quick. He basically just went to sleep. I'm having a hard time with this. My Daddy raised me after my Mom split when I was 3. He was an amazing Father and I'm missing him something fierce. At least I got that time with him though. It meant the world to me.

Now... I'm vaping one tank of Cinn Roll/Blueberry and one tank of Thug juice/Peach/Ruby Red Grapefruit juice. I rotate these two 'types' of flavors to keep my papillae (lol) happy. I'm putting together a pretty large order with MBV with two new spinner batteries, the iTaste MVP 2, 2 new Smoktech Glass/Metal tanks, Two aluminum drip tips and a LOAD of juices! :) Refilling my ADV's (cinn roll, blueberry, thug juice, peach, solar flare) and trying a bunch of new ones like.. pineapple, coconut, raspberry, grapple and a few others I can't remember.

I recently tried the Dark Chocolate and fell in love with it! Wow, rich and decadent. Can't vape it all day, but it is really nice by itself on occasion or mixed with some other flavors in small amounts. Delicious!

I also tried Spurberry... it's 'ok' for me. Not really special, but very good. Peach/Pineapple was a free sample and I can tell I'll like it more with +1 flavor shot. The Texas Sweet Tea is amazing after steeping for 2 weeks! Yummy! It also mixes well with fruit flavors.

I missed y'all! Trying to catch up, but it will take a while. :ohmy:

I'm so sorry to hear this Chaotic :/ I'm glad you have lots of vape stuff to keep you occupied :)
And I like spurburry!!!! :p i hope your juices help to cheer you up!!
 

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I did the same for my husband. The memories I have of the time I spent caring for him are often the only thing that keeps me getting up in the morning. So many don't get the chance for that time. I miss him like fire but feel gratitude for the kindness and tenderness in our last months together.

I did the same for my husband....he passed 2yrs. ago Sept. 10th.
The pain hasn't left, but I am healing....learning who I am, now that I'm not part of a unit, ya know?
Not a day goes by that I don't say, that's how he did it....that's what he used to say....etc.
But learning to stand on my own has been interesting to say the least....
 

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You're killing me with your avatars :blush: Anytime you need a place to stay in New England....

i kinda luv that zombie provari. bet it's pricey tho.

More than I can reasonably afford but reasonable's not my strong suit.



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kelli

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I did the same for my husband....he passed 2yrs. ago Sept. 10th.
The pain hasn't left, but I am healing....learning who I am, now that I'm not part of a unit, ya know?
Not a day goes by that I don't say, that's how he did it....that's what he used to say....etc.
But learning to stand on my own has been interesting to say the least....

so many heartbreaking but heart warming stories here. unfortunately, death of a loved one is something we all must cope with (unless we die very young, which few of us want). i feel for you all who have lost someone. heart.gif
 
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