Ob the wire size does make a difference. I use 32awg a-1 kanthal. I use 3mm silica wick. I have been pretty consistent in going by wraps. I tried the meter slide on the wire thing too and was all over unless I really held the wire firm against the meter leads and gave it 5 or so seconds to settle and lock in. Then I would get a steady reading.
Using the above materials and no meter I have figured out that an 8/7 wrap will put me around 2.9-3.1ohms. A 7/6 wrap will put me around 2.3-2.6 and a 5/4 wrap will put me around 1.3-1.6. Don't know if this helps at all
From all I have read and watched it is the total length of the wire so the ends of the R wire that are twisted around the NR wire will factor in to the overall length, therefore ohms.