Been reading this thread... Bahahahaha love it!
I've been married 28 years and I get an allowance, my cash to do with whatever I want. I don't have to ask for money, he pays the bills with my check as well, it all goes into one of our two accounts, I work full time been working most of our 28 years. I've saved my own allowance money and bought the designer stuff, I have a nice collection... I save to get what I want and I shop on the internet auction sites, I sell things I don't want to friends... I hardly ever buy new stuff...
When we got married so long ago I thought it was so stupid to ask for money to buy his Christmas gift. I actually hated that! So we discussed it, and our allowance covered gas, analogs, & extras... It's budgeted.
Recently, I've quit analogs and asked my DH if I could have the money I was spending on analogs To help cover my vaping hobby. We made a deal, it was less than my analog money but enough of an increase to help me pay for my new hobby, vaping as long as I don't get crazy with the shiny's ;-)
I don't buy from B&M much, we have a great local guy who keeps his prices ok for the unnamed egos, attys, and backup stuff if you can't wait.
If I buy something for my vaping hobby I usually will get him something too, and tell him about why I bought it. He quit analogs years ago (8) but was smoking cigars. He's been vaping as well because he don't want to smoke his cigars in the house. But since I started vaping he has too!
Just yesterday in my Vapemail I bought him a SVD, 2 tanks, batteries, and chargers he the whole set up as well as one for myself... I make him his own juices, I've ordered some flavors he might like.
I have 3 other family members who vape and they teach me so much. They are addicted to the FT site and DIY juices, they know what works for what and what to spend my money on... they have a nice collection of mods from the FT site, and pretties.
My DH is just so happy I've quit the analogs I don't think he cares what I spend money on... And it is nice to buy him shiny's too!
Whatever works for you!
Oh by the way, I'm on the purse & jeans forums also, and your S.O.'s are doing the same things... Sending their purchases to work addresses, putting the purchases on credit cards you don't know about, and hiding them in the closets... The same as you! JM2C! Ok, now I've just spoiled it!
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I've been married 28 years and I get an allowance, my cash to do with whatever I want. I don't have to ask for money, he pays the bills with my check as well, it all goes into one of our two accounts, I work full time been working most of our 28 years. I've saved my own allowance money and bought the designer stuff, I have a nice collection... I save to get what I want and I shop on the internet auction sites, I sell things I don't want to friends... I hardly ever buy new stuff...
When we got married so long ago I thought it was so stupid to ask for money to buy his Christmas gift. I actually hated that! So we discussed it, and our allowance covered gas, analogs, & extras... It's budgeted.
Recently, I've quit analogs and asked my DH if I could have the money I was spending on analogs To help cover my vaping hobby. We made a deal, it was less than my analog money but enough of an increase to help me pay for my new hobby, vaping as long as I don't get crazy with the shiny's ;-)
I don't buy from B&M much, we have a great local guy who keeps his prices ok for the unnamed egos, attys, and backup stuff if you can't wait.
If I buy something for my vaping hobby I usually will get him something too, and tell him about why I bought it. He quit analogs years ago (8) but was smoking cigars. He's been vaping as well because he don't want to smoke his cigars in the house. But since I started vaping he has too!
Just yesterday in my Vapemail I bought him a SVD, 2 tanks, batteries, and chargers he the whole set up as well as one for myself... I make him his own juices, I've ordered some flavors he might like.
I have 3 other family members who vape and they teach me so much. They are addicted to the FT site and DIY juices, they know what works for what and what to spend my money on... they have a nice collection of mods from the FT site, and pretties.
My DH is just so happy I've quit the analogs I don't think he cares what I spend money on... And it is nice to buy him shiny's too!
Whatever works for you!
Oh by the way, I'm on the purse & jeans forums also, and your S.O.'s are doing the same things... Sending their purchases to work addresses, putting the purchases on credit cards you don't know about, and hiding them in the closets... The same as you! JM2C! Ok, now I've just spoiled it!
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