I have the opposite "problem" believe it or not.
The hubby does not like to mess with anything either.
Now, we both started with the cigalikes. He hated it. I wanted something more.... vapor/taste/throat hit, and started doing the research.
Moved up to eGos, then VV and various things until I got to rebuildables.
I personally, and this is just me, have never had much luck or like with cartos, clearomizers, vivi's etc.
My best vape has been with mechanicals and mesh rebuildables.
The hubby, I tried cartos, cartos and tanks. He killed them within 2 days tops.
Tried cartos/tanks on a ProVari. He killed them within 2 days, and I don't know what he was doing with the button, but was constantly turning the "power" up or down. I guess he would "double click" the button.
The eGo tanks would burn on him. Same with me, and the clearos and vivi's.
Both of you may be too new to vaping to want to deal with mesh rebuildables, but you may want to do some reading on them and think about them.
Once you have them set up right, the same set up can last for months with just juice refills.
In the meantime, there are bottom coil vivi/clearomizer types out there that may work better for you.
I had better luck with brand name rather just "any" clearomizer.