I'd probably run the .65ohm coils of 26ga closer to 30w. Thicker/Lower Gauge wire take longer to heat because there is less resistance/friction per inch. I cant see this causing harsh flavor though.. seems like the vapor would just be anemic.
8 wraps of 28ga on 3/32 drill bit (~2.4mm) should give you a 1.4-1.5 ohm coil. using this higher gauge wire will heat quicker and more intensely.
Having fewer build options on the tobh is one downside to it, though many cut off the AFC tabs. When I build I set the coil right next to the AFC tab, which isnt terribly difficult to do as that is close to where the coil naturally wants to sit on a 3 post RDA. I keep the coil over the juice well, but about as close to the edge of the deck as it will go. I angle the coil so that both sides sit about the same distance from the air flow in the top cap. Lastly, I position the coil a bit higher off the deck, so when you put the top cap on and look at the coil through the airflow holes you can see the bottom 1/3-2/3 of the coil, so when you take a puff off the RDA air will be encouraged to circulate under and in front of the coil, exposing it to fresh air, creating more vapor.
Maybe it is cotton that is irritating you? have you tried rayon, silica, ReadyXWick or something other than organic cotton?