need some support.

[realsis]

My dear husband just took all four of my new Kanger dual coil t3D Pyrex tanks and he CRUSHED them! All to pieces. Why? Because he said I had three tanks and he only had one. .... I feel like crying right now. You all have been so great, I guess I just need someone to talk to right now.. he said I lied to him about how many tanks I had. So he crushes them! In front of me! What a *****.

 

[ElConquistador]

I agree, he's definitely a *****.

 

[RippinLips204]

Is your hubby 12?

 

[realsis]

He's 43 years old! He kept one for himself and crushed all mine ....

 

[AveryW]

....... em. That's pretty screwed up.

Sent from the mothership.

 

[realsis]

What a awful waste!

 

[cbrite]

None of my business, of course, but are you in an abusive relationship generally speaking? That behavior, to me, is the sign of an abuser. If that is that is the case, you need to find some help in your community as the abuse will escalate.

 

[Merryhellion]

That'd spell divorce in my house. Just sayin!




Don't hate me for being happy; you still won't be happier than me even if that gets you off.

 

[Vaslovik]

He sounds like a primitive domineering and controlling type, and it's just my personal take on it but I think you would be much better off without him. The destruction of your property could easily escalate into violence against you physically. To my mind he's not a very nice man at all, and I'd be packing my stuff.

 

[Iffy]

My dear husband... What a *****.

Oxymoron!

 

[DancingHeretik]

None of my business, of course, but are you in an abusive relationship generally speaking? That behavior, to me, is the sign of an abuser. If that is that is the case, you need to find some help in your community as the abuse will escalate.

Exactly my first reaction.

 

[realsis]

I am shaking right now! I felt like smoking but I'm not going to do it. I think I'm in shock. I see he just crushed mine. Kept one for himself. I just hate waste and think that's a awful waste. I told him to take another tank if he wanted but he decided to distort my tanks instead.. I guess he's really angry with me for having the more tanks. Idk. I just need to calm down. I'm so upset. ..those were Mt favorite tanks. My other tanks leak..

 

[realsis]

Thanks everyone. You all are so great!

 

[CalamityJess]

None of my business, of course, but are you in an abusive relationship generally speaking? That behavior, to me, is the sign of an abuser. If that is that is the case, you need to find some help in your community as the abuse will escalate.

This was my exact thought too. In fact, it IS abuse to break things that are of value to the other person, it's one of the first visible signs it's a huge red flag. It exerts control, and that is not good.

 

[bacc.vap]

It's hard to even fathom this, he couldn't be any more juvenile. If this is standard behavior I'd be looking for an upgrade.

 

[Tomthern]

I can't believe anyone would destroy tanks because they had fewer. That does not bode well for the relationship.

 

[loxmythe]

You should crush his balls because - well he has 2 and ....

 

[JustB'nMe]

I don't know you but your thread gives me pause....and concern. It sounds like he has control issues. If this sort of thing is a regular occurrence, I would take the advice of cbrite because it seems an underlying issue exists.

That behavior, to me, is the sign of an abuser. If that is that is the case, you need to find some help in your community as the abuse will escalate.

Live well, Love hard, Laugh often & Vape on!

 

[Burn_notice_fan_NY]

Time to pull out the pre-nup and hope that you get custody of the vaping gear.


edit: the relationship does not sound healthy at all.

 

[db13berry]

To put it bluntly, this man does not love you! You just do not treat someone you love that way!!

I would be reevaluating my life at the moment.

Be safe.

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