Newbies giving me "advice" (rant)
- Thread starter RainbowBabz
- Start date
- th_trl_thread_readers 0
- Status
It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Very wise words that many would do well to heed.
It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Very wise words that many would do well to heed.
I've had to try and keep this in mind in my speaking voice. Apparently I always sound ...... off... who knew?!?
Andria
It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Very wise words that many would do well to heed.
Agree some folks have a way with words, others, like myself...not so much.
I overthink too much as it is and still come across as brash, it just ain't in me I'm afraid.
Eloquence that is. Cheers.
That's why I like forums...
I have a very deep and loud voice, and I'm usually a bit brusque given that I often lack patience.
With the written word I have time to think about what I'm going to say.
And also to try and choose "fluffier" words and phrasing, should I want to do so.
That's kinda funny because I have a mechanical mod, or a "mechmod", and I'm not at all like that. I'm modest because I do happen to know that vaping is subjective to peoples own opinions and preferences. But, to answer your question, since it really does work both ways I've noticed, just tell her "We're on the same team, you just have a truck and I have a car", so to speak. You know, just try to explain that you both have the same urge to vape, just in different ways.
I've had to try and keep this in mind in my speaking voice. Apparently I always sound ...... off... who knew?!?
Andria
Sames problem, I have resting
face AND voice! 
Duuude! D'ya see that hotbox at the end? Maaan..... headin' to the car now with my camera....
Seriously though I think there were more jerks commenting beneath that humorous little diddy.
That is funny stuff.lol Nothing wrong with having fun with it.
I think there have been a bunch of threads about those guys.
Well, not exactly THOSE guys, but yeah...
Just had to share with you guys the most recent batch of bragging and such from cousin of mine. Granted, it's not coupled with advice this time, but... Just wow, lol.
And meanwhile I'm over here with my cheap little hand-me-down dripper on knockoff egos, waiting for the money to get a new ohm meter so I can start making coils for my PTs again.
And meanwhile I'm over here with my cheap little hand-me-down dripper on knockoff egos, waiting for the money to get a new ohm meter so I can start making coils for my PTs again.
Last edited:
Women mostly don't carry things in their pockets, mainly because the pockets in women's pants are just pathetic, they're for looks, not utility -- that's why we have purses.
I've never been able to understand how men can carry that much junk in their pockets and not walk funny. Andria
I generally have my wife carry stuff in her purse for me.Women mostly don't carry things in their pockets, mainly because the pockets in women's pants are just pathetic, they're for looks, not utility -- that's why we have purses.
Andria
That's how I do it anyway.
I generally have my wife carry stuff in her purse for me.
That's how I do it anyway.
My husband wouldn't do that; he knows too well that anything that goes into my purse might or might not ever be seen again.
But he's got this big fat billfold, with all his "plastic" in it... and gets infuriated everytime his debit card won't swipe. 
Maybe if he stopped SITTING on it... Andria
In the lesbian community this isn't exactly the case lol. As a single butch lesbian, she has no purse.Women mostly don't carry things in their pockets, mainly because the pockets in women's pants are just pathetic, they're for looks, not utility -- that's why we have purses.
Andria
I think I'd still have to carry a purse, even if I was in that lifestyle; just too much crap to carry around, and books won't fit in your pocket. Being without a book is, to me, a fate worse than death -- what would I do in those small boring moments? Just stare into space?
So I have to carry a purse big enough for a library book, a wallet the size of some purses, and 2 or 3 mods, plus that ginormous bundle of keys -- not many keys, but that ADT remote is enormous! At least I no longer go into a panic at not having at least 2 pks of cigarettes in there. Andria
Lol. I myself carry a purse - now. But the purse thing didn't start until after the vaping thing (although not the reason, but now that I have to carry vaping equipment for me and vaping equipment and occasionally cigarettes also for my lady... Lol.
Also, side note, books can fit in your pocket quite nicely if you use an eBook app. I personally like being able to have dozens of books between my phone and my tablet, rather than being stuck with just one "traditional" book.
Also, side note, books can fit in your pocket quite nicely if you use an eBook app. I personally like being able to have dozens of books between my phone and my tablet, rather than being stuck with just one "traditional" book.
- Status
Similar threads
- Locked
