I'm not gonna get on facebook sorry but your friend is a twit. First of all if you ever want to see MORE people in one room at once (well, not lately but afterward) smoking and chugging coffee in one place, go to an AA meeting.
Secondly, the Big book (AA bible pretty much) STATES: "We do not demonize alcohol, we recolonize that the majority of people don't have a problem with it, but WE do." Pretty much. There are plenty of recovered alcoholics that will serve alcohol in their homes (myself included) to guests, and also, will frequent places like bars WITH A LEGITIMATE reason. I don't hang out in one, but I will go in to retrieve a relapsing member, the Christmas party etc.
There are some older AA blowhards who seem to believe any and all potentially addictive substances should be banned, but the majority of members do not think like that anymore.
Buponorphine and Methadone are probably the trickiest. There are divided opinions on whether that is "sobriety" or not, to the point that there are specialized (NA I think) meetings for that issue. With that said, if you are having any sort of opiate surgery and your doc recommends them, the majority of folks DO NOT say they have relapsed, and often (for safety) will get a friend/family member/their sponsor to hold their meds, if needed.
ANY medication IF used as your doctor prescribes, is supposed to be thoroughly legit, and yes I'd probably say the "medical" stuff coming on the scene is probably the most dividing thing, even though it's pretty darn harmless IMHO it has one of the lowest addiction rates of all time. Etc.
Anna
I really HATE people who do not bother to read their AA literature, including the history books. Bill W once hatched a scheme to send acid to hundreds of AA members and head to be talked out of it by more saner members. AA is NOT a hotbed of sane THINKING until you read the Big Book which is EMINENTLY sane, only it was written conjointly by a TON of members, with sort of a POOL of sane thinking.
If you can't find me a quote in the big book stating ecigs are harmful, I'm NOT going to listen to you. It gets updated, also, so if it was THAT bad there would be a new AA story like "SCARED TO VAPE" or something.. Sheesh.