I imagine there is the occasional tornado, I believe we even had a small earth quake (but I did not feel it) We however moved here in 1999 so the events you described are long before my time and sound far and few between. I lived in South Florida for 10 years before making way back out west. So a few Tornadoes every few decades, is better then a few hurricanes every few months!
I too love the snow, at least I do until the end of March, then I must admit I start to tire of it. And the more snow we get the more exciting it gets! I have a good set of snow tires so driving in the snow is no biggie. Most people around here are pretty used to driving in our conditions, but there is always at least one trouble maker in every crowd. Still it is better then some states I have lived in where a slight snow flurry makes you wonder how 90% of the people on the road got a drivers license!
I am very fortunate to still have a bunch of solitude around me. My closest neighbor is my mom (she is sometimes too close for comfort but it is family so does not count!) Besides, technically I am scouting on her property

and after that the next closest "neighbor" is a few miles away. I try to avoid the trips to Kalispell to avoid the crowds. And it is funny that I know think of Kalispell as crowded considering I grew up less then an hour from New York City!