I'm totally oblivious to flirting or oggling, but my wife catches every one. Women are sneaky when they flirt, but guys are actually pretty aggressive. My wife laughs when guys start trying to flirt with her right there. We were at Macys checkout, and the guy behind the counter was flirting, I guess. I'm oblivious to it, just thinking that he's really friendly, since he just decides to give me a 20% off discount because I have a "nice face". We walk out and Becky says, "He wanted you!" I argue, "You think that about everyone!" Thinking back, he did keep touching my arm while he was talking. DOH!