Contest within a contest:
I wasn't going to make any New Year's resolutions this year, but ... you talked me into it (and I'm glad you did). My first resolution is to make a conscious effort to find the humor in ... everything, Especially when I find myself feeling so angry, or hurt, or depressed, or ... you know what I mean.
My second resolution is to actively seek out helping others, more than I do now, during holidays ... and other days, but especially at Thansgiving and Christmas, etc. Soup kitchens, etc.