RB, you probably know this, but .. just pretend you don't see Emi, let her come to you. Sit still and slowly slide a hand or toe a little closer to her to let her sniff. I used to sit on the floor by the couch, knowing the cat was under it. Eventually, she'd come out and start exploring me. I didn't move much while she did this until she let me know she was ready for a soft (one finger) pat. To this day, friends who make noises or move to pet my little one scare her into hiding, those who ignore her eventually get a leg rub greeting. Only the chosen few are allowed to pet her. LOL.