I get it, I get it.
You're scared of mechs. They frighten you. I totally understand it. It's not rational, but I understand some people just find things scary.
But from a realistic point of view, what safety does your VV/VW mod have that a mech with kick lacks? Or for that matter, if you're REALLY so scared of mechs, then why aren't you equally scared of flashlights which are mechanically identical to a mech mod? Tube, battery, "fire" button, a socket on top which you screw in a
device that holds a metal coil or filament that heats up when an electrical current is applied. Do those scare you too?
A flashlight is the same basic design and can be affected the same way by the same flaws. Are they scary? Do you keep flashlights away from your wife and kids?
And for the record, my daughter has been shooting guns and rock climbing since she was 6. Excuse me if I think her mother is mature and capable enough to handle a simple mech mod.