Me too, the option of an unexpected miracle pregnancy or sudden early menopause is not exciting me too much.
You should calculate from the first day when your period starts.
I have read that the time between that first day of menstruation until you ovulate can vary in length (first half of cycle) but it's always 14 days from the time you ovulate until your period starts.
That's depending on whether or not you're ovulating every month of course.
I've also been doing a lot of reading about perimenopause - because I believe that at 43 this is what I am going through (my period DID finally show up and it's worse than any I've ever had before as far as how heavy it is.)
Apparently from what I've read about it all it can be the lack of progesterone as you get older (35 and up) that can cause heavy periods and bad PMS.
I'm contemplating purchasing some of the progesterone cream to try.
I'm willing to try anything at this point because I really feel like I'm going a bit crazy hormonally.
I have a feeling that the progesterone shots you were having are very different to the progesterone creams? The creams are not a birth control method from what I understand.
I'll be honest ,I'm totally new at looking into all of this hormonal stuff so I'm not exactly sure how it all works - each of the hormones involved, but this is the cream I am thinking of getting. ProFeme® Progesterone Cream for Women
I've also joined the Power Surge forums to try and educate myself more about perimenopause but thus far have only been able to read there as for some reason I can't post to ask questions.
Here's the link if you're interested. Loads of information there.
Menopause Message Boards, Menopause Forums and Menopause Blogs
Hormonally crazy? Hmm, lol!
ok....
Complete lack of libido - I mean, totally
Thinning hair
Depression
Anxiety
Palpitations
Cravings for sweet things when I was always a savoury cravings type of person - especially when my period is due (I'm like a chocolate devouring monster!)
Night sweats
Heavy - and now it seems irregular periods
Emotionally a mess when my period is due.
Besides all that I just don't feel like 'myself" anymore. I feel old before my time. Not sure who I am now or who I am becoming and I don't LIKE this person I am right now.
I just have thru the roof PMS and so nauseated and cramps are so painful. It's enough that it made me think about getting the shot just to avoid it.
I never thought candy and pop might make it worse...well if I could quit the cigs maybe the sugar can go. Crap...I really love candy! Alot!
Thanks for the tip blue8091. So you didn't feel the need to carry an axe? Hopefully this time next month there will be no jaws music playing when I'm around. I'm sick of people running and hiding till I've left the room. Though I might still pretend when my mother comes over!
I hope this next part isn't TMI, but the one thing that has done wonders for both the length of my period and the pain is to stop using tampons. Some people switch to pads, but they drive me nuts so I got a Diva Cup. I understand this isn't a solution for everyone, but for me it has really helped. Not to mention it is so much more convenient. I don't ever have to run to the store in the middle of the night anymore, or make sure I carry an extra with me all the time. Just sayin'.

