@ "Pwyll" - I really hope you do not think that I am coming down on "you" or complaining about the way in which you ran this "Game"/"Contest that wasn't a Contest" . . . As I mentioned before, of all people I think you are not only direct, honest, and striaght forward - But, without a doubt FAIR. . .
IMO - this was a FUN and quite enjoyable "Game" and I am very glad I participated . . . The Winners that were choosen couldn't have been any better choices (Well the exception is I wasn't picked - Now that would have been the best choice . . .
) "Your" daugther should not only be congratulated, but rewarded for a Job - WELL DONE . . .
Now with that being said . . . To respond to your last post and clearify a couple of things:
Yes, well, this will specifically be set up as a 'contest' rather than an after-thought to help boost short-term participation, so the rules will be planned and set in the first post. And I will be solely responsible for them--
GREAT - I have no problem with that at all - nor would I . . . I just wish others felt the same way and left "You" alone to run the "game" as you saw fit . . .
the questions I asked were because:
a) I have no preference and wondered about the general consensus,
b) I do have a preference but it is not strong and I wondered about the general consensus,
c) A week-long discussion now will minimize* attempts to debate the rules after the contest is underway.
As you may remember - I "Like" consensus and couldn't agree with you more, nor should there be any "DEBATE" . . . Your "Game"/"Contest" Your
- DONE . . . AND - That should be the end of the conversation - No one should have interferred or tried to influence you to change those
after the "game" was started, as far as I am concerned . . .
Also, I find it very interesting that some people are more than willing to partipate in any contest and accept prizes in "like" contest when they win, however get upset if someone else might look like they may win because of the number of "like's" they recieved - Just sayin' . . .
As for your mysterious friends; I'm sorry they were disappointed with my idea but not every thread is suitable to every person, and I'm sorry they chose not to participate based on the rules or my handling of the misunderstanding or whatever, but I've been in the same situation and chosen not to participate in both normal threads and contests for the same (or similar) reasons. I, personally, would have loved to see them here, but not at the expense of their own comfort (or ethics, or whatever was compromised by the thread or the way it's been handled).
* Note that I said "minimize" and not eliminate. I am not that naive
Ah - But they ("My" Friends) are not a Mystery to "Me", nor are some of them any longer to "YOU" they have all intention of Joining in the FUN during the next "Game"/"Contest" (whatever you decide to call it) and They have also said to "Me" that they actually are going to be purchasing "Stuff" from "Mom-Pop" after seeing what is there . . . So in the long run - it was a postive thing to have happened . . .
More importantly, I think you should know they were not disappointed at all with your idea for this game . . . they were more than willing to participated and wanted to . .. Nor did it have anything to do with the
you set-up for this "game" . . . It was the drama that was started by one person and then the rule change after people started entering - Nothing else.
First of all: I appreciate the contest! I'm one of Uncles friends that came in and photobombed you, and I didn't feel unwelcomed one bit
SEE - A "Friend" of "Mine" . . .
Now watch out she is a "Roller Derby" Woman and can "Check" Ya' if need be too . . .
Third of all: Can I request that Pop start giving out crazy socks again as prizes? Cause I love me some crazy socks
Now that would be NICE - Really "Like" a Good Pair of "CRAZY SOCKS" . . . Just Sayin' . . .
And some people come in and get things started and bicker back and forth instead of just letting the OP run the contest the way they see fit. That's when I usually back away...........just really needed to say that.
AND - Again I couldn't agree with anyone more . . . The OP should set the "Game"/"Contest" and the
as they see fit and once the FUN has started no one should try to convince them them to change things up mid-way - nor start any confusion . . . which is what happen that scared some people away - thankfully not all . . . AND - Sorry, but that is the truth and "Pwyll" is asking for input now . . . So I am providing some information so he can get a full consensus . . .
Matter of fact, I really "like" "Mom-Pop", not only have I ordered from them when they first opened up "shop," I have been lurking in their thread and sub-forum for quite some time, especially when "pwyll" came on board . . . Not only do I find them to be one of the better Venders here they and "pwyll" have always been upfront and gone out of their way to help others, including here in the ECF Community . . . Just sayin' . . .