Snails - Response on Threads Part 8

tiburonfirst

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He has one other daughter and 2 sons, who I love VERY much, but don't speak to me.
then it's out of your hands, kat! :( strange though that your brother did not offer an explanation when you got back together again or the oldest daughter with whom you stayed close all along.
 

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    Good morning Mary and KC :)

    then it's out of your hands, kat! :( strange though that your brother did not offer an explanation when you got back together again or the oldest daughter with whom you stayed close all along.

    It IS out of my hands. My brother hates confrontation, so he pretends NOTHING happened, although he acknowledges how much I have missed through the last 20 years. As far as my eldest niece, they kept her out of the loop, as they know how close we are. WE have speculated over the years, but, for the life of me, I cannot think of ONE, single thing I could have done to deserve this. Took care of Mom on my OWN. I went to ALL the kids sporting events as they grew up. I just don't know. I'm supposed to meet with my brother's lady friend, with whom he broke up last summer, as she "claims" to know something. That meeting is scheduled for Monday, but, now, it will depend on what's going on with my brother.

    Geez, I have ........ of the mouth (of fingers) this morning. So sorry...
     

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    Good morning lovely and handsome Snails :) Good morning Tibs, Fran, Kat and KC :)

    Sorry about your family situation Kat :( People sure are quick to judge others considering we are all sinners.
    Good morning Dale....and thanks....Over the years, I have surrounded myself with friends that are kind and good and they became my family. Reuniting with my brother meant the world to me, even IF he wouldn't tell me what they "perceive" I did. Families can be so strange. But, I am so blessed to have the greatest friends and a partner who loves unconditionally...:)
     

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    Good morning lovely and handsome Snails :) Good morning Tibs, Fran, Kat and KC :)

    Sorry about your family situation Kat :( People sure are quick to judge others considering we are all sinners.
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    How are you feeling today, Dale?
    ((Kat))

    Good morning snails. I wish I drank coffee, today. Dragging....
     

    Katmar

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    Good morning Atty :)

    i'm only guessing here, kat, but i imagine you dared to be yourself and that was not acceptable to some :(

    I dared to be myself back in the 70s. Faced MUCH backlash for several years, but, acceptance came slowly and completely within the family. I used to laugh and say that maybe they all thought my mom hid a ton of money in her mattress. She was on SSI at the end of her life.
     
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