I have quit cold turkey many times, and this time was the second worst (the worst being when I was pregnant...even though I was quitting for my baby, and that's what made me follow through, it was still SUPER difficult, right up to the last week of my pregnancy). I used Nicorette for the first few days, and it was still hard.
Whatever works for you is what works for YOU. No one has any right to judge you for anything. People have a tendency to hate and fear what they don't understand...they also have a tendency to get jealous of people who find a way around deprivation and difficulty. For me, I get mad when women get epidurals right away during labor lol. My sister-in-law had ONE bad contraction while in labor with my niece, and they numbed her up as soon as she asked. I remember thinking, "WTF? I had to suffer for almost a whole day before they gave me my epidural, that's not fair!" People are a-holes haha. If I were you, I wouldn't hide it. It kinda reinforces their negative attitude IMO. I understand not wanting to hear the nagging, but personally, I'm stubborn and very much the "I'm-a-grown-azz-woman-and-will-do-what-I-want" type haha. So I say, rebel! Viva la resistance!
