Suggestions about/for the Negative Feedback Thread
Since I ran into a snafu with my AC from Tasty Vapor it made me think of a few things regarding the Neg Feedback.
I didn't order it from TV. Unfortunately, I got it from a friend (who didn't taste it either) and she picked it up on the PIF thread. SO.. who knows where it came from. But it certainly taught me a few lessons.. and something we all should think about when we pick/up stuff on the PIF and in trades.
It's best to taste anything you receive that is opened, just to verify the contents!
Also, Stuff Happens, and since we all are doing a lot of trading, we should probably not expect perfection (
NO: I am not saying ANYTHING bad about the people I sent the AC to... EVERYONE has been super nice about it!!!) But the girl that sent it to me was worried that she was going to be the first name on the "You Blew it Buddy" list.
That got me to thinking about our bad traders list, and I think we should take a few things into consideration. There have been times that so-and-so can't make it to the post office, because they don't drive, or so-and-so was sick and laid up in bed, or the wrong thing gets sent.
And on the flip side; I've seen someone get furious and demand to get something for free, without offering a trade, or wanting to take advantage of someone's bad situation. I know what things are worth, and look up prices if I don't. (If a trade with me is ever lop-sided, I am fully aware of it, and am doing so of my own good will.) However, there are a lot of new people that may not know.
Those are the things that I think should warrant a time-out, so to speak.... blatanly bad behaviour, not just being a little late, or having a mix-up.
I'm just suggesting we should perhaps have a little more relaxed guidelines about what type of situation would put someone on the naughty list. Or, make it so that you (Jules) has to approve any name, and therefore you could verify any problem, before someone gets 'black-listed'.
Anyhoo, that's just my 2cents.