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LisaLisa

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1 Corinthians 13:13 - And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Love, the one little word that has the biggest and most powerful meaning. It's the easiest thing to do, and the hardest thing to do depending on the circumstances.

Loving your child is easy, loving your friends is easy, loving your pets is easy, loving people who bring you joy is easy. But, Jesus didn't say just to love the people who love you back.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse (Romans 12:14).

But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you (Luke 6:27-28).

Do you love the guy who cuts you off in traffic and flips you the finger? Do you love the neighbor who constantly takes your parking spot? Do you love the co-worker who steals all the credit for your work?

Do you love the person who vandalized your car, or the one who broke into your home and stole your family heirlooms?

How about the one who murdered your brother, raped your mother, the one who bullies your child at school everyday, or the one who wishes you were dead?

That's the real Love Challenge. That's the real deal there, the hardest thing humanly possible as far as I"m concerned, the ultimate challenge and test of a christian.

Jesus passed that test. While they were pounding the nails into his hands, he prayed for them, he forgave them and he loved them. In Luke 23:34 Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing." And the soldiers gambled for his clothes by throwing dice.

Could you do that? Would you do that? That's what Jesus was talking about, that's the golden ticket right there.....that's the defintion of LOVE in action.

This is something that I"ll be working on for the rest of my life, and the progress is EXTREMELY SLOW! But, it's worth it.

Every time someone wrongs you, use it as an opportunity for personal growth. Easier said then done, I have a hot temper myself, so this is a real challenge for me as my first reaction when someone slaps me is to slap back. So, it's a tough one for sure for alot of us and it doesn't come easy or automatic.

I remember watching this prison documentary on tv a while back. The mother of a murder victim went to the prison to meet her sons killer. She shook his hand, sat down at the table with him and asked him why he murdered her son. He told her it was a worthless gang killing, and attempted a lame apology. The mother listened to what he had to say, and then she told him that she forgave him. She actually went there to tell him that she forgave him, and she meant it, you could tell. I thought to myself, wow, that woman is a spiritual giant. Could I do that? I don't know, probably not, but I"m working on it. How about you? God does not expect perfection from us, but he does expect for us to try as hard as we possibly can.

But Jesus never said it would be easy, but he did say it would be worth it.
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I feel like this at work sometimes towards some co-workers and their actions seem evil to me, like they're out to get me or cause trouble purposely. I'll leave work and drive off thinking God, please do something to them. Then I also think of the Lord's word and realize that this is not something I should be wishing on anyone. Then I just pray to God that he give me patience and help me out, help me to understand mean spirited people and to forgive them for their injustice and evil intentions. I have found through experience that he takes care of matters in his own way on his own time, but sometimes I wonder why he lets certain people keep on causing grief for others. I work on trying to understand all the time.
 

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I hear ya jcamacho, it's sooooo difficult. As far as I'm concerned, it's the hardest thing to deal with. We just have to remember that God loves our enemies too, just as much as He loves us. It's hard for us to even imagine that, but He does.

Stay strong and do the right thing and you will be blessed. We can't control the actions of people around us, but we can control how we react to those people and situations. And those reactions are what we will be held accountable for, or blessed for.

Stay strong and keep doing what you are doing. Pray for strength, wisdom and guidance. He will give you what you need, and a door will open for you as long as you are doing the right thing. Have faith in this, He will not give you more then you can deal with. Remember Job and the torment that he went through, I can't even imagine what it was like for him, but he was provided as an example for us to look to during times of struggle.

Even when things look completely helpless and you feel that nobody is listening, trust that everything is being noted and recorded and things are happening behind the scenes that you aren't even aware of. Strings are being pulled, people are being put into place that we can't see.

I remember when I was going through my divorce with my first husband who was extremely dangerous and violent. He actually got visitation rights to our daughter even tho he had threatened to kill her, kill me and he had a long criminal record, been in and out of jail for his entire life. He was a bad character. I would meet him in a public place and hand her over, not knowing if I"d ever see her again. It was the most horrible helpless feeling that I never had, I would sit in my car and sob literally begging for help.

I filed with the courts to have all parental rights terminated, and took out a life insurance policy on myself, I was sure he was going to kill me on the courthouse steps. Well, the court date came, he didn't show, the judge winked at me, and it was all over. His rights were terminated.........for good........that was it.......it was all over.

I moved far far away and never heard from him again, he still does not know where we live. That was almost 20 years ago, but at the time I couldn't believe that god was allowing this monster to have visitation with my daughter. I thought of fleeing, I thought of other things too, but I stood my ground and had faith that He would take care of it, and He did. It was extremely difficult, but He came through for me and has never let me down.

He will come through for you too as long as you stay strong, do the right thing and stand your ground in your faith.

He never said it would be easy, but He did say it would be worth it.:)
 

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Sometimes when ppl are mean to me or do evil i wont pray for them, i wont hate them but i wont pray. Then a day come that i realised that if i wont pray for them then im just like them in a way. So i will start praying and will start loving, and it will make me more joyfull and happy. I often pray for contrys where there leader is evil and angry, and i pray that God shows him self i there life so they can turn around and make good things insted of evil.
 

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Sometimes when ppl are mean to me or do evil i wont pray for them, i wont hate them but i wont pray. Then a day come that i realised that if i wont pray for them then im just like them in a way. So i will start praying and will start loving, and it will make me more joyfull and happy. I often pray for contrys where there leader is evil and angry, and i pray that God shows him self i there life so they can turn around and make good things insted of evil.

Yea, I know. It really is hard. My exhusband was so abusive and violent. He put me in the hospital with broken bones and tried to kill me. I have been able to get to the point where I forgive him, but I have not yet prayed for him.

But, I think I can do that now, and I will pray for him tonight. It's been 18 years since that happened, and it has taken a very long time to release the anger and pain from my heart. It sure is not easy tho to wish good things on people who hurt you, but it is the right thing to do.
 

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If I don't come back, it means that I got banned from this site. I expect it might happen because of my "religious outburst" on that thread. If that happens, please someone take over the moderation of this group so that it does not die. It would be a shame for satan to win this battle.

You cant be baned for that i think , you have all the right to stand up for what you belive in and im with you , im so sick and tired of all the ppl around me that are making fun off and belittling God infront of our eyes. And then they say that we should be okey about it. No thanks im not okey about it, im very tired of always have to defend God, i shouldent have too..
I will pray for you !

God Bless!
 

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You cant be baned for that i think , you have all the right to stand up for what you belive in and im with you , im so sick and tired of all the ppl around me that are making fun off and belittling God infront of our eyes. And then they say that we should be okey about it. No thanks im not okey about it, im very tired of always have to defend God, i shouldent have too..
I will pray for you !

God Bless!

Well, I'm still here so I guess I"m not banned! :)

Yes, I agree. I'm also very tired of people making fun of Jesus also. I've noticed that alot of athiests do this all of the time and they say that we are the ones who are not tolerant of their beliefs. They say we are hateful to them and we discriminate against them, well they are worse in my opinion. They show hate to believers all of the time, and they can't even see it. It disgusts me.
 

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Well, I'm still here so I guess I"m not banned! :)

Yes, I agree. I'm also very tired of people making fun of Jesus also. I've noticed that alot of athiests do this all of the time and they say that we are the ones who are not tolerant of their beliefs. They say we are hateful to them and we discriminate against them, well they are worse in my opinion. They show hate to believers all of the time, and they can't even see it. It disgusts me.

So true, im fine with little harmless funny things. Like a banner i saw "i found Jesus he was behind the couch the whole time" Thats okey , for me that harmless and kinda sweet. But when it comes to things i feel is done just to upset us, i get sad and it hurts.
 

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I have been gotten alot of hate with my christian blogg, so i talked to a Christian friend and she said "I think maby not now but later in there life, when they are having trouble they can think back to your blogg and say, maby she had something there. So you always turn on alittle light in people while talking about it. But maby you will not see it in them right now but later on the thing you wrote about Jesus and God may help them "
 
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