I debated on saying something, or how I was going to say it. Don't wanna ruffle any feathers, trying to smooth them actually, so please understand that I know we all have our feelings.........I'm just hoping that perhaps I can get some folks to see things in a different light.
If someone came into my house, and either brought something in there that I didn't want, or put something of mine in a place I didn't want it to be........I'd move it or get rid of it. And I really wouldn't be concerned about you not liking that, cuz it's my house and I expect you to do things the way I want them. Yeah, maybe another day someone might do the same thing, but perhaps I'm in a better mood that day, and I don't dislike it as much so I don't move it back. I am only human after all. I don't always see everything the same way all the time. Most of us don't. You'd nearly have to be a robot for that. I think everyone would agree that they'd do what I would do in this situation.
Same for ECF and mods. We're in their house. They have a right to move posts, or delete them, and I guess I just don't understand why some folks take it so personally. They're not being ugly about it.......please don't assume it's a personal thing. They just quietly do it, rather than making a big deal about it. If it's a big thing, they'll give a friendly rules reminder. I've never seen anything hit the fan unless folks start arguing with them or getting ugly with them.
Y'all may disagree, that's fine. And I'm not bein a brown noser or .... kisser, it's just how I see it. I'm not gittin my knickers inna knot cuz someone moves or deletes something I post. I love you all........and hope that maybe this might calm some feelings.
Mind just mentioning what it was about so we don't get on it again, or can put the kibosh on it right away if we do? Pm if necessary. I really don't' remember.
