I debated on saying something, or how I was going to say it. Don't wanna ruffle any feathers, trying to smooth them actually, so please understand that I know we all have our feelings.........I'm just hoping that perhaps I can get some folks to see things in a different light.
If someone came into my house, and either brought something in there that I didn't want, or put something of mine in a place I didn't want it to be........I'd move it or get rid of it. And I really wouldn't be concerned about you not liking that, cuz it's my house and I expect you to do things the way I want them. Yeah, maybe another day someone might do the same thing, but perhaps I'm in a better mood that day, and I don't dislike it as much so I don't move it back. I am only human after all. I don't always see everything the same way all the time. Most of us don't. You'd nearly have to be a robot for that. I think everyone would agree that they'd do what I would do in this situation.
Same for ECF and
mods. We're in their house. They have a right to move posts, or delete them, and I guess I just don't understand why some folks take it so personally. They're not being ugly about it.......please don't assume it's a personal thing. They just quietly do it, rather than making a big deal about it. If it's a big thing, they'll give a friendly rules reminder. I've never seen anything hit the fan unless folks start arguing with them or getting ugly with them.
Y'all may disagree, that's fine. And I'm not bein a brown noser or .... kisser, it's just how I see it. I'm not gittin my knickers inna knot cuz someone moves or deletes something I post. I love you all........and hope that maybe this might calm some feelings.
We are still here 
