Correct, IF you put a link to that thread in the box. But you don't have to do that, as it's currently optional.
At first, I was going to select door #1, but had mixed feelings. Your post helped me understand some of my own internal conflicts. Very well and clearly written. Thank you!Clarification: By 'Abstain' that I mentioned earlier, I did not mean to suggest that an publicly visible option of Abstain be offered. I mean rather that the option of no reply at all remain.
Commentary: In social sites, I am frequently asked to friend someone based on...well, nothing obvious. I might receive a request for friendship that contains no significant information and no mention of any particular reason why a person might have chosen me to friend them. In such cases, I have no positives to go on, nor any negatives either. An acceptance of such a friendship request might open the door to 'whatever.' A rejection might be 'bad karma.' In such situations, I appreciate the opportunity to not reply.
Netflix can be similar. After viewing some offerings, Netflix asks for an evaluation, in terms of number of stars. These are then used to create or avoid similar offerings for me and probably many other purposes on the Netflix side of the transaction. These stars are offered in the context of degree of like or dislike. Not infrequently, there are programs that I watch that I may have found some degree of 'like' in, but have other reservations based on content or other. I may not really want to invite more of the same and at the same time don't care to negate it. For me, this is a case of 'no response.' ...mixed emotions as it may be.
I think the examples above may have parallels in Classifieds. The conclusion of a transaction can be more complicated than a simple 'good transaction' or 'not so good transaction.' There may be qualifications other than successful competition that come into play. Not clearly good and not clearly bad, but perhaps some lingering something that may be less than comfortable. Yes, there is the opportunity to offer commentary, but perhaps on our side of the transaction, we don't understand the full context of what is going on with the other party. I'd like the option of no reply at all in some of these cases.
I thought when the new board initially went live that there was a user option to delete feedback that you left for somebody else, but now I can't find it. Did I imagine that, or was the system quickly modified to remove that option from the membership?
My point is, I would like the option of deleting feedback that I have left for any other member that has not reciprocated. That way, the other party is not required to leave feedback, but I can retract theirs if I choose, without having to contact a moderator.
I see what your saying. Never tried it without the thread info entered.
If you can leave feedback for someone without linking to a thread couldn't that be easily abused?
Kinda defeats the purpose of the system no?
You are correct. The deal thread was not supposed to be optional but that's fixed now. Thanks for bringing this to my attention.
Having done extensive online buying, occasionally selling since the the late 80's, I decided long ago to use or not use trade feedback systems based on their individual merit. Many of them have none when too many folks at a venue put way to much importance on feedback. Some to the point of asking/begging/whining or even offering a deal to get feedback left for them. IOW, not all that feedback if left has merit. And if I do participate, I go by a rule of engagement where what is right is what is right. As the first party satisfied in a transaction (with payment in hand) the seller must leave feedback or they get none in return. That rule because on many on-line classifieds sellers do not/will not leave feedback first, period, and many of those sellers also do not leave feedback in return for feedback received. On the evillest classifieds of them all worldwide a sellers CYA thing to have options to guard against/have an out for negative feedback being left for them while boosting their feedback score (that has no merit anyway). So I don't rely on feedback scores when I know the bottom line is I am taking a chance buying from a stranger far, far away. And that both in private sales and from vendors... lots of bad vendors out there. On forums I rely more on presale communication, any forum posts I've seen to get a read on a seller.**Note this applies to positive feedback only, neutral and negative will post immediately with no required return feedback**
Your answer is in the very first post: