I just read this whole thread and, wow! Tonyrat, congratulations! You are very inspiring! Way to go!!
Thank you Metstoo!
Knowing all this now, I have been looking for a way to quit smoking that will work on cravings AND the emotional/stress issues. Patches and gum weren't the answer. Honestly? I can't recall exactly what led me to e-cigs, but I think I've found my solution in vaping! Yay!!
Metstoo... I'm sooo happy for you that you found vaping.. and as you can see, the community is FANTASTIC and EXTREMELY supportive!! So, if you're running into issues and such, don't be afraid to post... lots of folks are out here ready to help
Another reason... I suspect I have inherited my mother's hypothyroid condition and losing weight has become damn near impossible. I did an experiment and went on a strict 1400 calories a day diet with moderate to heavy (aerobics and strength) exercise 2-3 a week. I did it religiously for 5 weeks straight. I lost only 3 lbs and no inches. Until I find some way to manage my hormonal issue, quitting smoking and gaining 10-20 lbs is just NOT an option right now.
I've done a TON of research on weight gain and weight loss... and health in general... over the past year, and I believe I can offer at least a little bit of help to you on this issue. I'm no doc, so take this with a grain of salt of course, but I hope it helps.
Alright, first off... hypothyroidism doesn't mean you can't lose weight, it only means your RMR (resting metabolic rate - your rate of calorie consumption for only life's most essential functions - breathing, heart beating, etc.) may be a little lower than "normal".
Bottom line,
nobody's body can violate the laws of physics!! Not even with a hypothyroid condition... you can't get more energy out of a closed system than what's put into it... so if you don't put more energy into your body, then it must convert matter into energy or you'd stop moving (i.e. DIE, lol), so it's all about energy balance. Spend more energy than you put in, and you WILL lose weight. The trick is in knowing how much energy you're expending. (Counting the calories you're putting IN is relatively easy by comparison.)
I would suggest that you check out this site that I use for RMR info and to know how much you're likely to burn under normal conditions with and/or without various forms of exercise:
Calories Burned, BMI, BMR & RMR Calculator | CaloriesPerHour.com If you enter your gender, current weight, height, and age, it will give you a pretty good guess what your RMR is. For example, a 40-year old woman that's 5'5" and 160 lbs will have a RMR of 1,397 calories per day. That means if she consumes 1,397 calories per day, and doesn't do any activity, she'll maintain her weight... assuming normal physiology otherwise. I don't know what your stats are, but if you were eating 1,400 calories a day, unless you're pretty big and/or pretty tall, you may find that cardio 3 times a week will not cause very fast weight loss... even if you burned an extra 1,750 calories a week, then it will take 6 weeks to lose 3 pounds... which seems consistent with what you said you did. (And btw... ANY weight loss, even 3 lbs over 5 or 6 weeks... is GREAT PROGRESS... DON'T GIVE UP!! Just imagine after a year (52 weeks) how that 3 lbs turns into 30 lbs lost!! Besides, losing too fast (as a percentage of body weight lost) can be very, very unhealthy... slow weight loss is DEFINITELY better for your health. Oh, and about the inches... you have NO choice
where the fat comes from... eventually it will all go, but not necessarily from where you want it to come from, i.e. stomach right when you want it. For example, I noticed in the past 2 weeks... no change in waist size, but the skin on my arms is a good bit thinner... go figure!!)
If you do have a hypothyroid condition, then your RMR will be a bit lower, and that may be something out of your control... so up the calorie burn. Longer low-intensity cardio sessions will burn MANY calories without as much perceived effort.. it just takes more time, that's all. Plus, add resistence training (weight lifting) to put on lean tissue... this will trade fat for muscle, and you won't look like a body builder (that's not possible without EXTREME EFFORT)... you'll just look super healthy. So even if your weight doesn't change, who cares? As long as your body fat has been lowered and you look and feel healthier than ever.
There's really so much more to learn, but I hope that gets your started... if you really want to keep the weight off, or lose some, etc., learn as much as you can... and keep track of all your results... and you'll find out that even with hypothyroidism, you can acheive your goals.
A couple of tips to help you (and anyone wanting to get or stay at a healthy weight)...
- There's no magic bullet, sorry, but anyone that says otherwise is either trying to sell something or grossly misinformed. You can't think "I'll go on a diet" because eventually, you'll be "off the diet" once you reach your goal. And then the pounds come back. You just need to decide if you really want to do it or not, realizing it is going to take a long time to acheive your goals, and it's going to be a lifelong change in your activities and in the way you eat. It's simple in concept, but you have to want it for yourself.
- Stay the HECK away from soda and other high calorie beverages, other than a glass of milk a day. Soda (pop, whatever), and energy drinks are very, VERY bad for you, all the way around. Not a positive thing about them... other than being awfully tasty. (I used to drink a case of Mt. Dew a day... 12 cans of soda minimum... at 180 calories a pop... that's 2,160 from soda alone. Sad, but true. I've read that even diet soda is very bad for you and won't really help you lose weight... dunno for sure, but I avoid soda altogether at this point to avoid ANY temptation.
- Stay away from desserts in general... allow yourself only very limited sweets... you need SOME carbs, but sadly, most people's diet is like mostly carbs and sat fats... sigh. Frankly, fruit is much better for you than pound cake.
- Eat TRULY healthy and count them calories... don't fake it or take exceptions other than what you've already planned (like a weekly visit to your favorite restaurant, but don't get too crazy), and follow the food pyramid, it really DOES WORK.
Lots of fruit and veggies.
- Exercise... a lot... and have fun with it. Find something you like, so it's not a burden. I love my elliptical because I can glide along listening to music in the privacy of my own home... that's my thing. If you like something else, like hiking or biking, then do that... alot. (Don't overdo it of course, do some research or ask your doc on what's a healthy dose, not the minimal amount to get by, but what's doable.)
- Learn all you can about nutrition and good excercise. It's worth the work... very much so.
- On the positive side, once you decide to do it, after a few months, you won't crave all the "bad stuff" anymore... your entire thinking, what you want, what you like, completely changes... so the lifelong change stops being an every day fight, and just becomes... well, normal.
- Check out the P90x program. Google it. I haven't tried it yet, but I know people that did very well with it, so I will be giving that a go myself in a month or two. It's an excercise plan for building lean tissue with a great nutritional plan. It focuses on "muscle confusion" to build muscle very quickly... in a good way, not in a grotesque way. (Unless you want to
) Strictly speaking though, I can't vouch for it, not having tried it yet myself... but it seems like something fun to do when I need to give my regular routines a rest, so I will try it then.
- This one's important... USE ANY AND ALL pshychological tricks on yourself to stay motivated until the results speak for themselves and your new habits become part of who you are. I would grab my big gut every day and yell at it... "GO AWAY!" hahaha... that must sound sooo silly... but it worked for me. Made me feel like it wasn't really ME, but something terribly inconvenient that was simply attached to me that needed to go... and I like to think it worked. So let's say you don't have a huge gut to scream at like I did... but rather, let's say you like getting compliments... then doll yourself up. Dress super nice and do your hair nice, even when you don't have to. The more compliments you get, the more it fuels your desire to be the best you that you can be. If that's what motivates you, then use it. Don't be shy, it's your health at stake. Think about what motivates you and make sure you do all you can to see that motivation be a part of your life every day.
I hope that helps you... and anyone else patient enough to have read that.
