O...M...G! I read this and decided to go into my bathroom, in front of the mirror, and do a little experiment. I took a drag like I normally would and exhaled it in front of the mirror. Then I did a second and focused on actually doing a lung hit. The difference in the amount of vapor I exhaled, and the density as well, was significant. I've been mouth to lunging a .2 ohm coil. It appears the issue I've been having with vapor density wasn't my coil, my mod, or even my wicking. Turns out it was me. (Facepalm!) Gonna definitely try that 4 millimeter idea though. I'd like to see my coils wick a little faster.
This is why it's so hard sometimes to help people troubleshoot a problem online. 'Little' details can really get you

Glad to see @Revelene got you sorted out with this one. Air flow is important, the more power you use the more of it you need to keep from wasting that power. And the less power, the less you want, hence why tootle puffers prefer mouth to lung. It helps cut down the amount of air moved through the atty per drag. That's important at 10 watts.
@Boden's point about keeping the whole coil in the air flow path is also a very good one IMO. I've found that if I make the coil too much longer than the air hole the ends of the coil will gunk up faster than the middle section, probably because the ends are running hotter than the middle. In some attys with round holes I find vertical coils are better for that reason.
Using bigger diameter coils is a great way to handle finished coil length too. It's been a while since I've made a micro coil because of that.