It does help to know there are other people out there going through the same thing. But it's different from just knowing there are other people going through the tortures of the damned while trying to quit "cold turkey." It's fascinating hearing one success-story after another due to this e-cig technology. That's a cool thing: rather than oy, this is miserable it's more like wow...this is working. Pretty striking difference.
The non-smoker would say (and they have said this to me): yeah, but you're still addicted to nicotine. Ok, fair enough. I don't have a clever answer to that one. I can say only: right you are -- and I'm not breathing in arsenic, carbon monoxide, formaldehyde, and the other horrific stuff that it's said you ingest when smoking cigarettes. A perfect world, it's not.
It's also a good thing because as you point out, non-smokers -- even those who mean well (as opposed to the ones who enjoy occupying some Higher Moral Plane Than Thou...don't get me started) -- don't know what it means to a die-hard smoker to cut down to this level I've gotten to. And I don't expect them to "relate" to it, either.
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Do NOT get me started, either, Mikea!
I don't have the clever answer or learned retort to the "you're still addicted to nicotine" thing, either...except to say nicotine in its natural form is in a whole lot of plants, foods we eat, etc., and besides, people are basically, though maybe not literally, addicted to caffeine and to diet sodas and what have you. Not to mention alcohol. So there, to them. And besides, they've been so happy to ..... mightily about second-hand smoke, and now that isn't an issue.
I love what you said about being of support here in the way that we get to be able to. This is an upbeat, positive place, not a den of suffering!! A support group of cold-turkey quitters wouldn't be of much help. Certainly not an on-line one. I used to always say they'd have to put me away for me to quit. Which would work, but then when I got back into the real world, would it all translate?
That's why this is so doable for me, for the first time, to quit analogs using e-cigs. This is my "real world," and I get to quit the harmful tobacco-smoking. It would certainly be easier to start from vaping when I want to quit the whole habit entirely.
kathy