I struggled with the same thing...it's difficult at first! I found that when I'm in a drinking enviroment, I have to use my stronger tobacco flavor's. Nothing else works, and it's completely frustrating. Nothing like being out and deciding to have a few cold one's, then realizing you have banana cream pie loaded in your tank! With some effort, you can find something you'll enjoy equally with adult beverage's. Don't get discouraged, good luck.