Classy would be helping folks out when they ask for it, and if you don't have an opinion to help them, don't bother posting. Telling folks asking for mid powered mods (100ish nowadays, btw) they only need an istick 20 is a bit of a condescending way to be classy. No offense intended, but maybe if you stick to helping out folks who vape like you do you'll avoid any negativity. I never said you called anyone names, it's part of an old saying.
ETA: and I do think you started off right, helping out the OP. I've seen plenty of your posts helping folks out! I think you do good. The problem was with this:
"I really do wish that, generally speaking here, dont take it personally, people would get over the watts chase, its not what id like newbies to see, all the talk about inifinity watts and huge clouds etc. Its about getting off cigarettes, not getting the ruler out. Already had a few people agree with me that high wattage talk should be in a section inaccessible to newbies until they had xx amount of posts. Because any newbie entering
vaping forums these days would be thinking 200w mods and sextuple head coils were the average normal thing..."
It's not about a ruler, it's about avoiding ciggs, like you said. And some folks like higher wattages with the newer sub tanks out there, so higher wattage is here to stay. Some folks simply prefer a different vape than you do.