A continuing discussion from the "What's Eating at You?" Series. Extensive Study & Research examines the damage PORN has on it's viewers and it's Victims.
WHY PORN Hurts Everyone
It's fornication if you're single, ADULTERY if you're married.
The Men who use it are sneaks. liars and hypocrites. Why else is it done in secrecy if there is no shame? Why would you prefer your Daughter's and Wives not engage in it?
It's 'filmed' Prostitution if Men pay for it.
Because It's a form of unfaithfulness, most users eventually "act out" in real-life what they have viewed on Film.
It's like any other form of addiction. A tolerance develops and users become desensitized over time, so it ALWAYS escalates and Users will require it more often, and
require more aberrant or more deviant forms of Porn to achieve the same lust.
Porn is becoming increasingly more violent, and the participants in the Films keeps getting younger.... this includes teen-agers and even pre-teens, to meet the needs of this new generation of desensitized users.
It degrades Women, because many of the Women in the Porn Films are actually being abused; having to act in ways that are physically damaging and that they wouldn't enjoy in real life.
Men who view Porn aren't aware, (and some wouldn't care anyway), that most of these Women must use Drugs and Alcohol in order to endure these acts.
Most of the Women in Porn are between the ages of 18 to 25. Most Viewers have Daughters younger than these Women! This further humiliates the Wives of Men who view Porn and prefers it over their spouse.
It HURTS the Women who work in it. Even those who believe they enjoy it.
What Woman enjoys being used by an Industry with no respect for you and used by millions of Men with no respect for you?
Forgive me for getting too 'graphic' here, but this point has to be made;
What Woman can physically endure the effects of what this industry pressures them to perform.
It's a MYTH that most Women choose to be in the Profession of Porn.
The STAR of one of the highest grossing Porn Films of all time had a gun held to her Head during the filming! She also wasn't paid.
Many are unaware they're even being filmed!
These Women are the broken and abused, while pretending to enjoy the very thing that breaks them.
This Profession keeps many of them isolated and alone forever, and for good reason. Real-Life Men don't form lasting relationships with Porn Stars. In real life, these Women find themselves continually used, abused and abandoned because of this Profession.
Large companies like GM and AT&T own the companies that make and produce porn; they are the ones making the money off of women, not the women.
It destroys Relationships, Marriages and damages Families.
Men stop using Porn! Women don't want to be treated like objects! We are more than the sum of our body! We are real people, with real lives, and we want the same things in Life.
Much of Porn is such a deep form of violence and contempt against women!
Most Women despise Porn, and Wives are disgusted by it. Some 'go along' thinking it will keep their Partners or Husband's happy, at the cost of their own happiness.
As a man becomes conditioned to lust by Women in Porn, the desire for his wife and his ability to perform with her often decreases. He will prefer pornographic images to having God blessed intimacy with his wife.
Most Women are deeply hurt when they discover their husbands are viewing Pornography. It's as serious as an extramarital affair and most feel deeply betrayed by their Husbands. They claim they no longer really know their husbands because of this dark secret life. Because Wives see pornography use as adultery, their trust in their Husbands is broken sometimes beyond repair, or even restoration of any kind.
They are left 'gutted,' feeling alone and debased.
It's shameful when they discover their Husbands addiction to Porn! They resort to withdrawal and isolation, because of their unwillingness to share that discovery with other Friends and Family Members because now you to have to confess your 'perfect relationship' is far from perfect!
They lose respect for their husbands and no longer see them as good role models, and begin to distrust them around other Female Friends, Family Members and Children.They feel like FOOLS for ever having trusted them!
Here's what the Wives of Men who use Porn experience;
Anger, depression, shame, isolation, humiliation, degradation, hopelessness, helplessness, anxiety, insomnia, uncontrollable crying, and flashbacks to when they first discovered their husband’s Porn. Many contemplate suicide, and some will cope by self medicating with Drugs and Alcohol.
PORN plays a significant role in over 50% of Divorces.
PORN is ADULTERY, invites Comparison, encourages Lies, Lowers Self Worth, and robs us of true Intimacy!
If Men weren't willing to PAY for it, Women wouldn't provide the Service! None of these Women would do it for free!
Men need to realize how deeply pornography use hurts Women and just STOP using it!!!
Women need to stand up for their Brothers and Sisters in the Porn Trade and fight to end their abuse and pain!
In summary, PORN is a form of hate propaganda whose effects are especially powerful because it bypasses rational thought and goes straight to lust...conditioning the viewer to respond in lust to a repressive physical ideology.
- Eve
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