I would have asked girls out that were flirting with me, I was too naive and scared to ever ask thus my present situation....and maybe not go to an engineering school that was 88% male.....
to HS me: There is a reason the legal drinking age is 21. Think about it.
to College me: Don't drop out when you only have a few semesters to go. Even degrees in fields you don't want to pursue anymore can open more opportunities.
"High school isn't real life. It really doesn't f'ing matter! The jocks often become losers who peaked their senior year, whilst the nerds are now multimillionaires. In the end, high school has very little to do with the RealWorld at large. It's just 4 years of a long life ahead!"
I would tell myself to finish school even if you do have to change schools every year. Don't listen to your dad when he says girls really don't need an education. Just DON'T drop out and get married the next year to a really bad person.
I would not have told myself anything (who listens to anyone my age in high school anyways). I had to do the stupid things I did and live the experiences to be who I am now. My last high school years were not easy going to school, being married with a baby, but I made it through and I wouldn't change a thing because it all brought me to where I am and I have the greatest family and friends in the world that it took those exact circumstances, experiences, and people to produce.
I would tell myself not to worry that dad moved us while I was in 7th grade and couldn't graduate in the 8th grade with my friends, not to worry that dad moved us in the middle of my high school year and I couldn't graduate with my friends again.
I would tell myself to snap out of it, speak up, meet people, they don't usually bite, don't be so shy!
I would tell myself to not judge myself on the same ground that bullies judged me. Deep down, the ones who bullied me had their own demons they were fighting.
There's a very good chance that the people you interact with or run into everyday of your life, will have more issues and inner demons than you ever will. So don't let things like self esteem, second thoughts, and "what ifs" hold you back. Many have the same concerns, thoughts, ideas, and desires, that you do. They're just waiting for someone to take the lead.
I would tell myself that you won't believe how fast time flies, and before you know it, you'll look up and you are OLD, and wondering where the time went. Enjoy every day, every experience, every person.
If I could go back and tell myself 1 thing I would tell myself to lighten up and not take everything so serious. I was a very intense kid back in high school took a lot of things to heart and spent a lot of time alone because of bullies. I just wish I hadn't wasted so many years alone and just learned to not sweat the small stuff and enjoy it while it lasted! I missed out on so many different experiences and friends!!
I got pregnant at 16 and dropped out of high school. I got my GED, but I would tell myself to stay and finish high school and to continue to college. It would have been difficult, but doable.
I'd tell myself to pay more attention to some of that stuff that at the time, I didnt think I would ever need to know so why pay close attention. We never know where life is going to take us or what we really need to know until we get there
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