"to self" : So getting married before you graduated high school (age 18 to the day) may have seemed like the best thing to do for ALL situations = NOT TRUE, finding out you were pregnant on your 1 year anniversary (age 19 to the day)(oh my gosh girl what were you thinking), also seemed like all this is bliss, having to work 2 jobs to raise this child, ouch, who is raising this child? oh yea, daycare, that's why you worked 2 jobs! (age 25, another baby)... So, Self, what the heck were you thinking? If I didn't marry him, I wouldn't have the 2 most beautiful gifts in the world. But marrying the one and only person you (sorta dated) since you were so young, also stripped you of the opportunity to see or experience ANYTHING else. Tied down, stuck, work-a-holic, sucked the life right out of your being and to this day you still work your ... off! I can't say I wouldn't do it over again because my children are amazing, LOVE IS...your children's LOVE... so self... you have a huge dilemma... what would you do?!